So as I finished up Outliers, I was almost haunted by the idea that we possess the power to affect change, but rarely truly harness it. Students in KIPP schools given opportunities rise to the occasion by seizing those opportunities. This idea led to an interesting conversation with my daughters. My oldest daughter is in 7th grade, and knew about KIPP schools (Thank you, Channel One!). She went on and on about how many "amazing experiences" those kids have when they might not otherwise have anything meaningful to do. After lots of mom questions and probing, my youngest daughter remained unconvinced that so much time invested in school would be worth it.
I recognize that the premise is that poorer children need these opportunities to keep up with their wealthier counterparts. But what about my kids? Neither poor nor wealthy... I can't help but think that I'm failing to help them recognize the necessity for effort, practice, and that the opportunities they are given are worth seizing.
Just thinking... and hoping to do better day by day.
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There is no way with a mother like you, that your children aren't recognizing their potential. We do need to motivate children, and "lift up" others as a daily practice. Hopefully, this kind of attitude about life will be contagious to others young and old. Jill, you are a very enthusiastic person and I know you are inspiring your children daily whether they recognize it now or not....they will someday!
ReplyDeleteMary Ann, thank you. I just need people like you in my life!!! I agree that lifting others up needs to be a daily practice. Thanks for your encouragement. (I am confident that is part of YOUR daily practice!)
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